Position 3- How you TRULY feel about the current state of the relationship. Many times we lie to ourselves or look at how things used to be "so good". It is difficult to really express our true feelings (sometimes even to ourselves) about what is really going on and how we really feel.
Position 4- How your partner feels about the current state of the relationship. Same story here. Sometimes it can be very hard for people to listen to how they truly feel.
Position 5-Where you see the relationship going.
Position 6-Where your partner sees this relationship going.
Position 7-What do you think you might need to change to be happy/stay happy in the relationship
Position 8- What do you think your partner might need to change to be happy/stay happy in the relationship
Position 9- Outcome.